Cerita Nazila

After getting married for two months ago, I haven't written at all about what's happening in my own life until today. People said that when you've got married, you are going to start new life, atmosphere and the most important you've got new friend who ll stand beside you all day and till the rest of your life. Insha Allah.  That is everybody's wishes and that is going to be an eternal happiness, I believe.  Well, may some people asked for.  What will be happened having new life?  I only can say that whatever happens, be grateful to God. Mercy and love always become the blossom at home when you find your husband keep smile when he eats and tastes your food, when he goes home and find you look like fresh and smell good. The snack are available and always well prepared anytime he needs your help.  I haven't been experienced in married life, but I only wanna share that being a wife is a new role that has a lot of worthwhile meaning.  I have just re...

In the name of Allah the Most Gracious the Most Merciful "Destiny is not something to be pursued,It is something which walks with us, Always, hand in hand." "Oh! Allah Guide this marriage to the best of understanding, happiness, prosperity and success. -Aameen. Mr. H.M. Zoubair Bakry and Mrs. Hj. Suada Ahmad request the honor of your presence and blessing on the very grateful occasion of the wedding ceremony of their beloved daughter Nazila Zoubair with Yudi Helfi adored son of Mr. H. Syamsul Udaya and Mrs. Hj. Hafniarti ...

God, grant me the serenity To accept things that I cannot change; The courage to change the things I can; And the wisdom to know the difference. Let this blog alone without inspiring touch makes me guilty.  Wish it doesn't mean I am ignorant person but I am trying hard to find the new perspectives to share.  In last few weeks I was thinking about one question 'what's life mean to you?' Is it a journey? or is it a destination?  The wise man said that life is like pedaling a bicycle, you never fall down unless you stop pedaling. I consider this metaphor as my own life, my journey but not my destination.  Well, realize that life is a journey, I come up with the opened mind that that is so impressive to know Islam has a different perspective how to undergo the life itself. Islam is not oppression faith but freedom to choose whatever I want to be.  If I feel like a man who has been asleep somewhat and under someone else's control. If I realize that I...

Few days ago I let one of my friend-as who I consider my sister 'Yolanda'. She is the one of the smartest friend that I've ever had since I was in university. At that time we always shared ideas&discussed many things primarily about Islam ideology. I found her more consistent than me...sometimes I feel so proud of her that when I was in Bogor-I was an inspiring person for those of my close friends but how could I find them now more productive than me. Even so, I don't want to lose my own thought. I m still thinking so far...and I think that one comment of her trigger me to think faster than before...being more critical than before and the most grateful I am that she is still consider me as the person to share with... Here is her comment to think over.... Living harmony, music harmony, melody harmony or harmony (one of one TV program in indonesia) seems its sound nice. When there were some differences be united in one swing. Something which alive is the one who ...

"Nothing happens until you make it happen" sounds impressive spirit.  Yeach, sometimes we face the impossible things to do. This trap mindset bring us live in miserable n desperation. We only think that life is end and no gain anymore. Well, personally I've just in such situation. firstly, I dunno how to overcome the conflict interest between people around me primarily to those who I really care about.  Everybody I believe wants to live in harmony until the rest of his/her life. In fact, we cant deny that everybody has his/her own world. everybody knows what is the best and suitable in his/her life. he/she only knows the consequences of every single matters that one do. Sometimes I am questioning on my mind, is it wrong if I stand on my own way? is it wrong if I struggle for what I believe while others against me? How can I live in a harmony? How can I convince others and me that what I do is the right path? I remember when I discussed with my students that everyone ...

Here the recipes: Don’t chase money, power, or status. If they come to you, that’s fine. But most conventional ideas about success go wrong because they focus on outcomes instead of on the processes of living. Outcomes come around from time to time, but life itself—the process of living, acting, thinking, and being—happens all the time. No outcome is going to make a lousy, miserable process feel worthwhile. If you hate what you do, no amount of power or money will make up for that. If your life is constantly stressful, boring, unhappy, or frustrating, how can achieving some high status once in a while make up for all the miserable days and weeks you spent getting there? It’s tempting to feel that the end will more than make up for the means; that you’ll forget the misery in the blaze of achievement. And you will—for a few moments. Then you’ll be back on the treadmill, with only the distant hope of some fresh achievement or monetary gain to console you. That’s like being a labor...

A man is talking to God. The man: "God, how long is a million years?" God: "To me, it's about a minute." The man: "God, how much is a million dollars?" God: "To me it's a penny." The man: "God, may I have a penny?" God: "Wait a minute." Fred is 32 years old and he is still single. One day a friend asked, "Why aren't you married? Can't you find a woman who will be a good wife?" Fred replied, "Actually, I've found many women I wanted to marry, but when I bring them home to meet my parents, my mother doesn't like them." His friend thinks for a moment and says, "I've got the perfect solution, just find a girl who's just like your mother." A few months later they meet again and his friend says, "Did you find the perfect girl? Did your mother like her?" With a frown on his face, Fred answers, "Yes, I found the perfe...

I m here...sitting alone with the deep breath, wanna write something to refresh my mind this weekend. Many things wants to talk. I have just walked around with my colleagues from the office to Mari-having lunch with fried rice and es teler, chit chat about work environment in our company. Meeting and meeting again...my friends said, our manager's hobby is meeting. Many job descriptions should be done. But how importance are they if the office's management from the top are not really effective? Fortunately, I have committed stop complaining at least for today, I don't want to break my promise even to myself:No complaint, grumble, do the best I can. Remember Butterflies don't complain or stay in their coocons. They are struggle. They force themselves to grow up. They emerge victorious and delight all who behold them. They are beautiful, and so am I, if I only knew!

I'm still thinking about this. We just human being and realize what we are looking for is getting Allah's Mercy and Blessings. Time flies, and our charity and sin was kept in writing by the angels. At least, those two always in my mind... How fast I'm running to get success? Sometimes, I got many plans in my head in one time... Then I'm facing plans with same scale priority... I haven't been a good one who can secure others a person who can be dependable I felt my brain spinning back forward scroll up down Keep my consciousness and keep my belief Streaming up of blood to brain Then the fear came and flow my lips said a prayer Ya Allah, please keep tight Islam on me Don't let anything keep it loose on me Ya Allah, please don't close Your Mercy from me Don't let the darkness made me forget from YOU after you have given Light on me. Ameen